43 wedding guest dresses you'll definitely want to wear again (and again and again) (2024)

FAQs

What should a woman in her 40s wear to a wedding? ›

It's best to choose darker or more vibrant hues that complement the wedding theme, and avoid anything that may appear too attention-grabbing or revealing. Don't wear anything too casual, such as jeans or sneakers. Even if the wedding is outdoors or in a more relaxed setting, it's still important to dress up!

One of my go-to outfits is a classic midi-length dress made with a soft, flattering fabric in a color that complements my skin tone. Don't forget to pair your ensemble with tasteful accessories such as statement jewelry, a stylish clutch, and comfortable yet chic footwear.

It's better to be overdressed than underdressed, but find a happy medium that won't have you mistaken for the groom. Don't Match the Bridal Party. As a guest, you don't want to blend in with the wedding party (or even mimic it).

Midi length is the preferred length for many women who want dresses to attend formal or semi-formal events. Maxi Length – Maxi dresses can be flattering if you are over 60 because it makes sure that everything is safely covered. It is elegant and suitable for fancier occasions.

Wear Something Dressy and Party-Like

Plus, when you look good, you feel good and everything is much more fun! Aim for something dressy and party-like, heck even a little glamorous. The easiest way know how formal you should dress to check the dress code on the wedding invitation.

Invest in high-quality basics like well-fitting jeans, crisp white t-shirts, and classic blazers. Experiment with bold prints, bright colors, and trendy accessories to add interest to your outfits. Try mixing and matching different textures and fabrics to create unique and personalized looks.

Older brides can and do wear white on their wedding day if they choose to. White is a classic and timeless choice for wedding attire that symbolises purity, new beginnings and the celebration of love.

While it's more elevated than semi-formal, it's not quite as dressed up as formal — it's somewhere in the middle. co*cktail dresses generally refer to shorter dresses with a semi-formal feel (think knee-length or mini), but midi dresses or more casual maxi dresses can work too.

You can't go wrong with classic tea length wedding dress for older brides, and this lacy modern design is a prime example. With a gently flared skirt and vintage touches, it may just be the icing on the cake for your bridal look.

Anything Too Casual

We get it, no one wants to quit their coziest clothing like yoga pants, slippers, and jeans, but it's important to remember that these have no place at a wedding. Even if the celebration is casual and relaxed, guests should always err on the side of formal.

What means something you should never wear as a wedding guest? ›

It doesn't matter if the dress code requests "casual" attire, jeans, T-shirts, shorts, flip-flops, and sneakers are never appropriate to wear as a wedding guest. Show respect for the bride and groom by dressing formally. Sabatino suggests that men show up in a jacket and tie, even when the invitation says casual.

I have advised readers that while bare legs are fine even at the most formal events, hosiery also is perfectly acceptable as long as it's skin tone and sheer. I've just returned from a wedding where I wore my new bargain ($10!) black sequined mini and consignment store jeweled black shoes (also $10).

Personal Style

If you're more of a classic bride, opt for a simple Amsale Crepe V-Neck Shift Dress or go big and bold with a traditional ball gown complete with lace detailing and a dramatic train. For those seeking out modest attire, look for floor-length dresses with long sleeves, high necklines, and covered backs.

Stay clear of jeans and khakis! "I can't tell you how many men think that semi-formal means nice jeans and a button-down. It does not," advises Holland. "Our best advice for men is to wear dress pants and a fun dinner jacket with a button-down shirt."

So, what is considered co*cktail attire for women? It traditionally skews on the formal side—but that doesn't mean you need to wear a floor-length evening gown. While you might want to leave the mini skirt at home, it's perfectly appropriate to wear a midi co*cktail dress or something that hits just above the knee.

The staff suggests that if a wedding is taking place at 4 p.m. or 5 p.m., you should wear something that easily transitions from day to night; any ceremony after 6 p.m. should be strictly co*cktail.

Women wedding guests should wear full-length dresses, be it a ballgown, a sheath or an A-line dress. High heels are strongly recommended.

However, in today's modern-day age, wearing black to a wedding is completely acceptable, and in many cases, it's even encouraged. “Black is often considered the most formal, polished, and flattering color,” explains wedding expert Ashley Smith.